Real Ideation

  Real ideation aims to dig out greatness burried  either intentionally or not in an individual. By promoting self awareness and mental well being of our readers.

What I have always wanted; life, family, smiles, growth and development. Most of us want the same thing,but, we have stood by and watched as these things slide by in the past few months. We are in the most difficult times of our lives. Many lives have been lost already and we don't know when or how it will end. This period has taught us how precious life is and those of us who still have it should protect it in the best way we can, because we have one life to live, just one. We still have the chance to live life to the fullest by suffering its short term and enjoying its long term. Corona virus has done enough harm to the world already, let us stop the spread by practicing all the safety precautions as directed by the World Health Organization (WHO); washing our hands regularly, using an alcohol-based hand rub, keeping a social distance, wearing nose mask and gloves, whiles avoiding the touch of our nose,eyes and mouth. Our lives are too precious and we really need ...

To fit in, we do a lot of crazy things. One being; forgetting who we are or where we come from. We cover ourselves with a layer to blur this fact so that we easily build relationships with others. We take on a layer to show the world we can do almost everything, even things we know deep down that we are scared to do. To fit in, we abandon the people who love, care and support us on any day for the people who like us because of what they have seen or heard. We then play the blame game when things go wrong. We change our attitude to suit society's expectations just to be admired and recognized. You cannot cover a scar with a piece of cloth and expect the scar to disappear when the cloth is removed. In fact, the cloth does nothing to the scar so it should be appreciated as it is. We can be groomed to be someone else, but, we will still have a piece of us in every move we make because there is nothing like hiding who we are. No one can be you in anyway just as you...

The reaping stage. Many people are reaping the good seeds they sowed days and years back, in probably their businesses , their innovative ideas or their source of finance. It's obvious how we are eager to get there ourselves to reap like most people. Due to this, we have learnt every single thing about them and how they got there because we want to do everything like them in order to get there. But, life has no pattern, there isn't some kind of queue we are to join in order to be great. We can't work, and sweat by following every single thing someone did in order to get our expected results at the end of the day. So, you still want to sweat in line? Please DON'T!. Most things they did were not conscious efforts, that's why they failed and tried again till their expected results are seen. That's their story to the world. What will be your story to the world? Life isn't perfect and I don't think it will ever be, so, in order to get what we wan...

 I don’t know about other colors, but I know there should be a piece of black in all of us, just a piece. Without it, many people will suffer, others will starve, some might even die. Well, black here refers to all our negative attitudes. Yes! Our negative attitudes, and one of them is a piece, selfishness. We are drowning with people we are supposed to save, dying with people we are supposed to heal and crying with people we are supposed to cheer because we do not have a piece of black at that point. We are to first lay a good foundation for ourselves and later make ourselves better in order to help others reach their goals. Just like in an operating room, there are no guests or visitors allowed because the patient is going through transformation. If a house you are in catches fire to an extent, you find means of getting out then, you go for help for anyone in there, but if you try to save everyone at that point, chances are, you are all not going to make it. There are s...

Clearly, there is heaven on earth. You want to know how I know? Well, there are times you feel alone, times you do something great without getting an applause, times you help better the lives of others and they end up being ungrateful, times you win by the skin of your teeth, yet you don't value your efforts. We obviously allow ourselves to feel that way because we expect too much. We were placed on earth for a purpose, so, we should do our best with happiness and pleasure. You know that great feeling you get when you do something you are into, or something that influences someone or something positively? yes! That feeling. I call it little drops of heaven. It doesn't come as a result of a comment or an applause or the number of people around you. You trigger that feeling with no external factors. Imagine you do something you love everyday, Imagine you work towards archiving something you long to posses, each day. Just imagine, have You?....little drops of heaven. Wel...

Grass is expected to be green and it is actually supposed to be green. I mean no other colour, but green. Do you agree? This is what society demands of us and we do not hesitate to meet its demands. There are laid down rules, which somehow draw a picture how society wants the future to be. There are patterns which we are to follow in order to attain the standards society has set for us, but, we have no idea what this does to us. Our passion is cleared and our vision, blurred. Our creativity sinks and so does our potentials and these guidelines from society changes our personality, we become different. What if we lived in our own way? What if we followed our own patterns? What if we set our own goals? This is when grass turns blue. Too many of us move through our lives with our true selves buried below layers of repressed emotion. With so much energy channeled towards attaining these standards society has set, there is little left over for the deeper questions. Fine! The kind...

Do you know about the world-for-one?   You don't ? Well it's a world you alone can live in, just you and noone else and It's the world of thought, feeling, attitude, belief and imagination but things get quite messy over there. Unknowingly,the mess takes over our lives, preventing us from getting to our highest level of happiness, then, we end up blaming innocent factors but the best thing you can do is to clear it and keep your mind clean. It's evident that there were tough times in the past and those times left scars in your mind and historical concepts do trigger those moments but they shouldn't take over your life and erase your ambitions and dreams. You know, that scar right there is an eraseable scar so clear it and keep your mind clean. Negative thinking, a whole bag of trash which is valued to a weird extent and ends up changing one's personality. You are not inferior, not weak, not a coward and not dull, it's just society at it again. You belie...